OK but Dwalin wasn’t born yet when Erebor fell in book-canon and Balin was 7. So they’re back and are going to their family’s apartments and Dwalin is slack-jawed when they go in and Balin is just crying, because Balin is going through all these really hazy baby-memories and Dwalin is seeing all it all for the first time. And Dwalin is all like “was this Amad’s?” and “wow, Adad had really bad taste in color schemes.” And Balin finds his favorite stuffed toy which hadn’t made it out with him.

(yeah, I know – I was thinking it would be even more bittersweet, because Dwalin would be discovering that his parents had a life – a nice life, even – before they became the grim, weary dwarves he remembers)

AUGH AUGH AUGH NONNIE D:

Sad headcanon: All the Sansukh Company members helped with the Erebor cleanup effort. The Durin ones (and Dain) had to go and clean out their family quarters. Especially painful for people who had lost family.

AUGH.

Okay, I am wibbly enough about Dwarves like Balin and Dwalin entering their family quarters… finding little remnants of their parents’ lives: a scrap of paper with Fundin’s writing on it, a broken comb, a childhood toy carefully stored, Dweris’ favourite dressing-gown, now more moth-holes than fabric…

but Dis. 

Dis. 

EXCUSE ME, GTG BAWL MY EYES OUT NOW. 

do you have any headcanons about the afterlife for men? i really want to know what boromir is up to. (love your writing! and sorry if this got sent twice)

(Thank you, Nonnie!)

I haven’t really come up with anything for the afterlife for Men, I’m afraid. I’ve been very Dwarf-focused!

askmiddleearth has a really good guide on the different afterlives for Elves, Men (including Hobbits) and Dwarves. Here’s the summary!

Though, the fact that Men (and Hobbits!) go somewhere unknown even to the Valar is sorta intriguing. Perhaps they come to our world? Perhaps you passed Boromir in the street, or Gilraen on the bus today – or do you yourself have odd dreams now and then, of a white tower with pennants flapping in the wind, and the distant call of silver trumpets? 

😉

Sansukh has made me wonder: can elves watch those who are still living too? is there a star pool equivalent in the Halls of Mandos?? Bc on one hand: woah, sad feels everywhere! on the other hand: Feanor yelling angrily at EVERYONE. also would ghost!elves be able to see ghost!dwarves and vice versa or are there different levels of ghost?

Awww, Nonnie! Thank you! It’s such fun to consider this stuff, I hope you enjoy!

Actually, I am considering something quite different for Mandos. We know from Tolkien that because Elves are ‘tied to the world’ (can’t remember the exact phrasing rn) unlike most of the mortal races whose spirits move on to some place unknown, Elves’ spirits stay put and cannot leave except in exceptional circumstances. They are re-embodied after a time (most of them – not Feanor yet hahaha) and sent back to live in Aman. 

Unless you’re Glorfindel

So, I think??? I could be wrong idk – that this means that the majority of Elves who have lived in Middle-Earth are eventually re-embodied in Aman, and so would have to find a way of watching stuff going down from their cities there.

Since we have no idea what Groin was doing during Azanulbizar, I posit that he was with the combat healers, as was Oin (if Dain and Dwalin and Gloin were there). It was one of Groin’s greatest regrets that he was on the opposite side of the field when his wife, brother and sister-in-law died, even though he knows he couldn’t have saved them. Groin then found himself with four dwarflings (his sons and nephews) to take care of by himself, while stopping his cousin Thrain from doing anything stupid

AUGH NO

Hey Dets! :] Awhile back I think I saw someone who drew some lovely fanart of Dis, and they spoke to you about her mourning marks? Could you maybe tell us more about those, if you haven’t already? (and if you have, I didn’t see it I suck oops, sorry!) Thanks <3

Hey Fox! 

(if it’s not cool to publish this publically, just let me know, k? I just wanted to take the opportunity to get this written and put out there, but if you’re uncomfortable with that – absolutely come thwap me with a rolled-up newspaper)

OKAY – so to your question, though! Here is the placement of Dis’ marks. The inspiration, btw, came from the individual symbols/patterns used for each Dwarf in the film. You can see them here.

Balin’s – above her
right eye

Parents – on her
back (guarding her, she likes to think)

Vili – over her
heart

Oin – over her left
wrist

Dain – cheekbone, under her right eye, vertically opposite Balin’s (eventually)

Thror’s – right
collarbone

Hrera – right side of her neck, under
her ear

Thorin’s – right
side of her chest, opp Vili

Frerin – Right
shoulder

She wears no tattoo
for her sons: instead, she wears their beads in her hair, one for each of her
Lineage-braids either side of her temples. That way she gets to touch them
every morning and night.

You’ll spot that the vast majority of her marks line down her body on the right, from her brow all the way to her chest. They march down in a line, each one a silent memorial.