Ooooh, good – and really difficult – question, Nonnie.
I like to think that a kherumel is more of a description of a Dwarf’s best self. Some Dwarves might be very intimidated by the promise inherent in their dark-name, but I don’t think they would consider theirs ‘less good’ than another Dwarf’s.
It’s not about predestination, but it is innate. It is less a prophecy and more an promise of Mahal’s individual, specific love for them in particular. No Dwarf would ever wonder if their Maker does not love them. Their dark-name would be a confirmation of that – a secret and sacred acknowledgement of that love.
Some Dwarves are definitely shy! Even with their esteem issues, however, I would think that their special and secret name would give comfort rather than take it away. Even if they find it hard to make their way in larger Dwarven society, they have a personal and enduring reminder of Mahal’s love, just for them.
EDIT: OH, and I also should mention! Each kherumel could easily be interpreted in many different ways. The Dwarf’s personality is not shaped by their dark-name. I’ll take Dwalin as an example.
Dwalin Fundinul –
Bakhuzâluh
Mahal – Hammer of Mahal.
At first glance (and only because we know Dwalin) this appears to refer to Dwalin’s role as warrior and protector of the Durin line. BUT – what if Dwalin were rather more shy and studious? He could have become a great jurist or scholar – thus, he would have been fulfilling the promise in his name in another fashion, protecting and upholding justice or wisdom.
Another example!
Frerin Thrainul –
Abkundûrzud – Dawning Sun
Because we know who Frerin is, this can be seen as referring to Frerin’s youth at death, and his sunny, warm and bright nature. But if he had lived? Perhaps Frerin would have been a great diplomat, and so have brought a new dawn to his people. Perhaps he could have been a mighty warrior, and his Name might have referred to his ferocity.
Each name is a descriptor, yes, but there is no specific mold that a Dwarf must fit in order to fulfil it. A dark-name is not a prophecy.
Hope that answers the question, Nonnie!
