I’m coming back to this fandom for a while to escape some pretty vicious discourse in my current one and I just want to thank you (as fandom den mother) and the rest of the Tolkien fandom for being a generally discourse free zone

hey Nonnie, believe me I am super, super glad that your experience has been such a great one. I hope it stays chill and discourse-free for you!

I’ve been kicking around in the lotr/hobbit fandom long enough to know that there is indeed wank aplenty – but it is blockable! And the vast, vast majority of folks here are A++++ people, which makes things much nicer on the whole.

I wouldn’t call myself fandom den mum, honestly. More like unreliable fandom auntie. 😉

How do you manage to stay fixated on one fandom for so long? The longest I’ve ever been able to do that was maybe a year but I doubt it was that long

By taking long, long breaks, and by fandom peeking. 

I do get burned out. I am burned out right now, as it happens. After nearly four years, I am SO burned out!! But I stick to my guns, because I promised I would finish. And I remind myself of what I love about this gigantic, consuming, wonderful thing. 

And yeah, fandom peeking is fun. I read a fair amount of fic outside of Tolkien fandom. And often it is for fandoms that I don’t know anybody active in, or have never participated in. Sometimes I need a total change of pace, a new vista, and a fresh gust of air to blow the Mirkwood cobwebs off my brain. 

Rules: list ten favourite characters from ten different fandoms and then tag ten people.

I got tagged by @elenothar! Thanks, mate :)))

1. Gimli son of Gloin – LOTR (damn this was hard to choose)

2. Bruce Banner – MCU

3. Leia Organa – Star Wars

4. Tanya Adeola – BBC Class

5. Arnold Rimmer – Red Dwarf 

6. Minerva McGonagall – Harry Potter

7. Sam Vimes – Discworld

8. Martha Jones – Doctor Who

9. Dain Ironfoot – The Hobbit (SHUT UP IT COUNTS)

10. Furiosa – Max Max Fury Road

If you wanna do this, then consider yourself tagged!!

Never blame your fans

askfibs:

I know many of you artists – whether you draw, write, or compose – are frustrated that your original work, especially your dream projects, aren’t getting the responses you were hoping for.

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I feel the same way.

But some of you express your frustrations completely destructively and blame the world for not giving you the spotlight.

When you do that, you’re blaming your problems for existing rather than adjusting and compromising to solve them. You’re making excuses for your mistakes. You’re demanding the world to change but you are not willing to change with it.

This is the perfect mindset to NEVER succeed in anything, ever.

You need to accept some basic truths of art before you can go any further:

  • Your art should teach you as much as or more than it teaches others: If you claim your art opens horizons and widens minds, yours should be the first priority. You cannot speak without listening. You are not a righteous prophet enlightening the heathens with the true word. You are one humble person and your art is one humble person’s story.
  • There are no new stories, but there are always new storytellers. That amazing idea you have that nobody’s ever thought of before? Someone has. But nobody has told the story your way, or drawn the character your way, or sung the song your way. Art is not about being new. It is about being you.
  • Popular art is all about the beholder. All these shows and games with so much fan art? They got to that level because they command a personal investment from and serve the viewer – they have worlds their fans want to be part of, and your canon will be swept aside along the way. You the artist are not a god or a wise sage. You are a guide and a footman. To be an artist is to be humanity’s servant, not its lord – and there’s no shame in that.
  • Most of your fans are not artists or art critics. While there will be a good number of them in your fanbase, the vast majority are not going to be super-open-minded creative thinkers who value every single opinion, outlook, and story just because it’s done technically well. They will be ordinary people with ordinary, selfish interests, and they will care about your content more than your talent. You have to balance what you want to draw with what everyone wants to see.

But the most important part of being an artist or really a person at all is to understand this:

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Nobody owes you success.

Nobody is under any obligation to pay anything you produce a second glance or support or promote it in any way.

Nobody is spiting or robbing you by not giving you a like or a reblog or a follow.

Every single gesture of appreciation you receive from someone is a courtesy – a gift that you earn, not a right you’re entitled to.

It is not the job of your audience to love your work. It is your job to make it lovable. And just because you are working really hard does not mean you are working in the right direction.

I know that thousands upon thousands of artists put hours or months or years into a project and feel like they get nothing in return. Sometimes it is not how hard you’re working but what you’re working for that is the problem. 

Sometimes you need to slow down and think, “Do I have to have this just so? What would the kind of person interested in my work be looking for, and where can I address it? Am I maybe taking myself and my work a little too seriously?” 

And a lot of artists don’t realize that as an amateur, you are the sole proprietor – you are your art. Whether people like you determines whether they like your art.

And that’s why when you blame everybody else and post ungrateful, catty garbage like this:

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… you don’t subsequently become the next Toby Fox.

The simple fact is that people will pay you attention if they think your offering + your hassle are worth their attention.

You need to create a world that someone other than you will have fun in and you need to be a good host to everyone who visits

You need a world that will welcome your fans with open arms.

You need to build a world people can live & play in.

And you and your world need to appreciate your fans just for showing up.

Because this is exactly what the big fish do.


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because they spread your work around to more people without shanking you on credit and who gets the likes

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because they make your work show up sooner & more often on searches and are simply a nice gesture

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because they take time out and pay good money to listen to your story and make you from a pauper into a prince

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because if you appreciate no one, no one will appreciate you, nor should they

mcmanatea:

Listen, friends. No matter how much research you do, or how many
times you parse the original source material, or how convincingly you
argue your particular viewpoint, you are not the arbiter of all things related to your fandom.

The
only ones who can say they know everything there is to know about any
given piece of media are the original creators. (Or, in the case of RPF,
the individuals themselves.) Literally everything else is derivative.

That
means that no matter how plausible you think your idea sounds, and even
taking into account the culture/time period/authorial notes/exact
position of the moon on the day the original content was published, you
are still only speculating, and filtering your perceptions through your
own experiences and biases. If you happen to be gifted with the ability
to convey information clearly though writing, your interpretations are
no more valid by virtue of being framed articulately.

In short, don’t be a jerk about other people’s fandom headcanons. If you feel that you must
comment on something that didn’t explicitly request con-crit, consider
instead discussing it in private with like-minded friends instead of
inflicting your unasked-for “corrections” on someone who’s just enjoying
fandom in their own way.

We’re all playing in the same sandbox. Try not to be the one who shits
in it.

obsessedwithamedot:

malefactor-centrist:

astral-pouch:

pithya:

lavabendinggemqueen:

when a popular fan theory you hate gets crushed by canon

When the fan theory you hate is directly contradicted by canon, but is still widely accepted as gospel

Originally posted by annasfrozenbutt

when the fan theory you hate was seemingly crushed by canon, but then got brought back 

When people are arguing for a fan theory you hate but you have the latest canon update on your side.

Ysma is so relatable